Sunday, April 4, 2010

Happy Easter Sunday...

I need to Blog. Judy Ann was never a Fan of the Blog but that was mostly due to the Fact that she hated coming down to where my Blog computer is located. Her only stipulation was that if I used her as a Topic she wanted to know about it.
  • First things First...I cannot thank you all enough for your support over these past few days. It is such a difficult time. At times I thought I just wanted to be left alone but then someone would show up and I would feel better.
Her Service on Saturday was just what I was Hoping for. She had So many people that Loved her and enjoyed her company. Many of them told me they were so sorry that they had not maintained the close relationship that they had with her in the past.
  • I take a big part of the blame for that. She was content with "hanging with my Gerry"....
...Anyway, today I picked up her Urn at her Mothers' and brought her home. I thought that touching the Urn would Freak me out, but the opposite happened. I put her on the passenger seat of my Jeep & fastened the seat belt around her (she would never do that!). I told her, now you have to do what I say!
  • This may sound freaky, but I am glad to have her home with me...
P.S. Urns are the way to go when you Lose someone Dear.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

You and Judy Ann will always be in our prayers asking God to give you comfort when you need it. I'm sure that you'll be contemplating "what now?" Trust that those prayers will help you pick the right path to take.

Love ya Gerry.

sis said...

Doesn't sound "freaky" at all. Do whatever brings you comfort and what makes you feel close to your Love. I think she'd like being there, too.

Eddie and Susan said...

Under the most difficult circumstances, you were great. The 'gathering' on Saturday was very nice, impressive to see all the people who love you and Judy Ann in one place. I'm sure you were 'feelin' the love' too.

Love ya, Gerry.

stoneman said...

Just soak in the loss and happy thoughts of Judy Ann. Let yourself do what comes naturally right now. I believe that's part of a grieving process. Everything you did and all that you said about JA showed all how much you loved her and she you. Anything any of us can do for you, we will. Just ask. Love you.